3. Set firm boundaries for yourself upfront.

3. Set firm boundaries for yourself upfront.

I’ve attended large, co-ed parties where I’m mostly thinking about chilling out in my own underwear and making out with strangers. At smaller events for women and femmes where i am aware one other attendees, I’m much more comfortable participating in impact play, but we still don’t like getting completely naked. It took time for you to discover the things I had been comfortable with, and I also did this by going gradually and checking in with my emotions. The very first time we decided to go to a club had been entirely to see just what it absolutely was love and also to get confident with the area. Continue reading “3. Set firm boundaries for yourself upfront.”